
You ever have one of those heart-to-heart conversations with yourself?
The kind of conversation you would have with a friend, only you’re the friend?
You know that talk you gotta have because you’re her friend and you love her?
I have those conversations with myself all the time and it usually goes like this:
Tighten up, sis.
Just keep showing up.
You can and you will.
Be humble. But let them know.
First of all, don’t settle.
I think every woman should have that one phrase that will convict her into pulling her self together.
Friends are not always available. You don’t always have time to book a counseling session. Your mom, grandmom, auntie, sister, and whoever ain’t always around for a quick word of prayer.
Learn to encourage yourself.
Inspire yourself, empower yourself, and pray for your own self.
No one got you, like you got you.
© 2025 Nakeia Homer
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